OK then, we have a fundamentally different opinion of what kind of choices consumers can make.
You yourself noted that the CarPlay 2.0 licensees are all upscale brands. Well they're not, Honda and Ford are there among others.
But it's not the whole market so car buyers have options whether to get involved with CarPlay when they make their purchasing decision and after purchase, whether they actually use CarPlay.
If you want to die on this particular hill as proof of Apple coercing car makers to certain decisions or car drivers to look or not look at CarPlay screens, go right ahead.
I just don't see some big outrage one way or another.
If for some reason you don't like the CarPlay display of the instrument cluster, I would presume you can choose not to use CarPlay. If for some inexplicable reason that isn't allowed, word will spread and people will decide whether to avoid cars with such systems.
And I've seen some awful instrument panel displays with all kinds of wacky themes. But usually you could choose to switch them. I just find it unlikely that any car maker will force some rigid UI on their customers.
In any event, these are all theoretical right, there are no actual CarPlay 2.0 systems where the driver can't change the instrument display colors or designs?